Self Esteem

It hurts me that so many women end up in destructive environments. Most of them feel that when their mate hits them it is a sign of love. I feel that love shouldn’t hurt and if it does then you need to make adjustments in your life. Someone must explain to these women that they have to know that they deserve to be treated like queens. If they don’t know this then they will continue to attract that type of companion. I am no expert but I know that if you search your spirit you will find things that don’t belong.

You must get rid of all negativity in your spirit because you attract what you are. And if that is negative then you will attract negative mates. A lot of times women have self-esteem issues and this is another reason they end up with companions that abuse them. I notice that when women are in bad situations the people around them call them stupid, or judge them. They have to realize that they are in not position to judge anyone. Some people think that if you call them names they will get the point but the real way to help them is to pray for them. Obviously, they can’t see whatever it is that you see or if they do, they are in denial. See people are so quick to judge a person in a bad situation instead of trying to help them. Yes I know that some women don’t listen to others advice but your prayers are strong and God hears them.

I just want all women to know that they should never settle for less just to prevent from being lonely. The real truth is, you are still lonely your flesh is just satisfied for the moment. Loving yourself first plays a big part in how you deal with relationships. I feel that if you don’t love yourself how do you expect someone else to. How can you convince another person to love you if you don’t think you are worth being loved? Yes I know it’s crazy but it is the reason many women are in relationships that don’t work. Now I am no relationship specialist but I know from experience. Love yourself first and know that God loves you. He provides a love that won’t fade or change. All I can say is don’t sell yourself short because you deserve far more than you give yourself credit for.