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Love, Lust and Romance -
What is the difference?
Topic:  How We Understand Love

On the other hand, lust is a somewhat dangerous one because mostly lust is an intense feeling. Lust could be between human beings or you could even lust after money or other material objects. When one is in lust, normally the thinking cap slips off and the results could be disastrous. Hence, deep and clear analysis and understanding the nature of your lust is very much needed.

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Topic:  How We Understand Love

How do you know it’s Love?

Love is indeed a wonderful thing. But it is something that we should be certain about, least we spend many sleepless nights in deep thoughts and confusion. Sadly, determining the veracity of love is not always easy. Sometimes, a deep infatuation is equated with the same. .

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This issue's topic:Understanding Love

 


Topic:  How We Understand Love
The Truth about
Relationship Expectations

While there is something to be said about "expecting the best," we must remember that disappointment comes from unfulfilled expectations. This does not mean that when your expectations do not get met, that the results are always bad. It only means that if your expectations don't get met. Disappointment usually follows.

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Love, Lust and Lies

Topic:  How We Understand Love

Sex & Relationships

The main difference between crushes and love is that crushes often happen when there is little chance of forming a relationship. These types of crushes are a safe way to explore your feelings for someone who you may think is unattainable. But sometimes the strongest variety of crushes occurs when the person is not completely outside of one's reach. These can closely resemble love, and if your feelings don't fizzle after you've snagged the object of your crush, they can lead to love.
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Topic:  How We Understand Love Love Relationships

We forgot how to love each other. In modern world that we have created, loving someone without need is unheard of, loving another unconditionally is rarely practiced, and loving everyone without limitation is actually thought of as "wrong."

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